Its 102 cause we are beyond 3 months. now this is where the real test begins;
In a relationship, in the beginning we tend to be real cliche on our approach, actions and words because that is what we know. Now that we are past the infatuation phase, its time for sacrifice - give time - learn - act within reason.
Sacrifice - the choice between not giving up, giving up, and limiting. These are the contemplation in which will exist and intertwine. They say love is one of the greatest aspirations in love, so we must aspire that drive of happiness with out losing ourselves on the way. Sacrifice can be considered anything, whether it be people, a habit, etc.
Time - To be in any kind of relationship time is a must. Time waits for no man and it is the grandfather of all. With time you eat, pray, love, heal, cry, experience and learn. As time goes by, whether wasted or not, the art mastering many is upon you, its just accepting the fact that you have the capability of doing so, is just the knowledge you need. with out that, then you become lost and repetitious, and stuck in a time of comfort.
Learn - If you have taken an interest, then this is the most fun and the most hardest thing to do. cause as you learn, there is a trick behind the whole escapade. A wise person once said "there is a difference between knowledge and wisdom - Knowledge is knowing a tomato is a fruit, but wisdom is knowing it does not go on a fruit salad". Basically we are given, or obtaining knowledge about an individual. Now is to display our wisdom through our action or words to compliment both yourself and the other person. Appreciate, not agitate I say.
Reason - We have to act within reason and become aware and think before we act and speak. What good is how we react if you have not taken your knowledge and applying it accordingly that converts to wisdom. Ex. When I speak I curse, but it agitates and gets the other person all stirred up. why not choose to not to for that moment and witness a result and not assume one. We have bad habits, and bad habits have us. whether we chose to break them, that's on us!
All in all, Intertwined - We have to LEARN with TIME and SACRIFICE within REASON. *think about it*
Cliche quote: Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow.
Zues Quote: Forrester said "its not me that changes, its the neighbourhood that did" - all in all, we must be adaptable and become adaptable to, if not, then maybe you will change...
1 comment:
To be in a relationship i don't think there is time, assuming you are with the one you love, you are lost in time with this relationship. But with time you learn about this person, you learn their qualities and their flaws and you learn to love them both equally. With the time we have take to learn everything we would know is how we give a million and one reasons for why we love the way we do
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