Advice to my Lil' Brother

Family is very important to me! I have a HUGE family! I have 4 brothers and 3 sisters, a million cousins, and loving aunties and uncles. I love it when my Family comes to me for advice. I'm one with allot of solid good advice about life, relationships, people, love and always have great inovative ideas.

Today I'll share some advice I gave to my 12 year old brother! Justice aka Mini me aka My Protege

• Ju$Ti€£: Big Brotheerr !
• ZUES: Yoooo
• Ju$Ti€£: WhatsGoood
• ZUES: Chillin - reading someones blog right now
• Ju$Ti€£: Ooh, cool cool
• ZUES: Wuzzup
• Ju$Ti€£: Nothing , Quesstion,
• ZUES: Listening
• Ju$Ti€£: How do you play with girls minds ??
• ZUES: Like in what way...
• Ju$Ti€£: Well , in what way do you do it ?
• ZUES: U like this girl?
• Ju$Ti€£: There's several ones but yes ,
• ZUES: Lol
• Ju$Ti€£: Lol
• ZUES: Can't be a playa like that man! One woman! Ladies are allot work to be juggling
• Ju$Ti€£: Your right
• ZUES: Why pour all your energy and learn 10 different women when u can take that same energy and learn one women...
• Ju$Ti€£: Right ,
• ZUES: Like I read a book once about dating and it said that its good to date up to 3 ladies at the same time so you can have options which is not a bad idea depending on the time frame u give each women. But then u have to realize in my opinion what if u like all 3 and can make a choice within the 3 months period. Then that leaves more room for attachment etc. Instead take your time and learn the in and outs of one girl in a relationship - take your time - there is nothing wrong with not liking a girl, saying your not interested and going to the next
• Ju$Ti€£: Yea I something like that Too
• ZUES: Don't that sound better then having 3 women and designating a day for them or having 3 girls nagging at u
• Ju$Ti€£: Yeah,
• ZUES: Exactly... Remember this quote! "Its not about a man fuckin a 1,000 different woman - its about a man fucking one women a 1,000 different ways"
• Ju$Ti€£: Ayee ,
• ZUES: Yup
• Ju$Ti€£: Okaay ill remeber that,
• ZUES: U understand it
• Ju$Ti€£: Yea
• ZUES: Love you Lil chef
• Ju$Ti€£: love you too big chef

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Erica Jong once said "Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't", I agree with this on a personal stand point. Lil' Chef, you knew what you was asking, and you knew the answer, you used me to confirm was we on the same page.

Your young, live fast but experience slow, grow old when you get old. I will always be here through your trials and tribulations, when ever you need advice, and will be here to be your mentor...

Love you Lil Chef...

All my famz, I love you!

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Friends with benefits

Quotes from the movie "Friends w/ benefits"

- Prince charming - he cannot rescue you. You have to know who he is - the person to take one the world with

Response: Ladies I know that finding love is not as easy as it was back in the old days. Now you must struggle to find a man as strong as you to take on all challenges, not physically but mentality. Now and days sometimes some times the role changes and you have to well the knight in shining armor, but in doing this, you take away masculinity from a man. So please find a balance for him, I was told you can mold a man, but don't change him!


-Don't be to proud to tell someone how you feel - life is short! Don't waste another minute!!! Or else

Response: We as people forget that time is precious, we as people forget that if we don't take risk and if we are not opportunist, we will be like sharks, we will not feed and "die". In our case, meaning all is lost. Repeatedly we are reminded "live everyday as if its your last", but we let the wrong emotions get in the way of the right actions. Mind vs the heart - action vs. Emotions - past vs. Future.

-Emotional damaged - believe in true love

Response: we tend to act on what we believe, but don't patch up the scared. The foreshadow of life is all around us but we never reference the little examples with the big examples. Example - we trip, fall and get scared. We tend to the wound, hurts a little, patch it way to it heals, but continues with day to day operations. Apply to life and understand time and the process of healing.

-Wish life is a movie
No make up.- no bathroom
Friends with benefits - 2 people just playing a game... Its the end of it!

Response: A game is a game. You can't play one game for to long with one person cause it either gets boring or becomes more then a game. Attachments start to grow, despite emotion, negative or positive. The reason why people wish life was a movie or fairy tale is because through all the trials and tribulation we go through, we can write the perfect ending and make all we have dreamed of.


-Commitment
Why do women think it takes manipulation to get guys to do things?
Her response: history and experience

Response: History and experience we learn from. History and experience we base our next move on. History and experience holds reserve our emotional's. History and experience can make us of break us. History and experience turns the future into an alternate past. Commitment is a Pledge or bind. There are commitments in relationships, friendships, and even friends with benefits. Last but not least, guys you might not like this, but females, I would love you to manipulate us but for the right reasons. Some men need to manipulated to encourage things we was gonna do anyway!

-Why is the beginning of relationships so good!?

Response: Easiest response all throughout this blog - one word, expectation. In the beginning of a relationship, you really have none. So we don't have to uphold anyone to anything, expectation becomes a factor when you want something repetitive and from one person... That's when u start getting in deep.

All in all: just don't think about it and do it. Do it then think about it.

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At what point does true honesty exist?

True honesty exist when a person has no mental reservation. At the point when a person admits the truth at moments despite consequences and judgment.

Yes its true what they say "be true to thy self" - but to fully embrace it means to also follow through. 1) true to yourself 2) once u understand what is it that you be true about. THen 3) share. A lIe affects others in ways u may not know or not aware of...

Quick breakdown:
True (truth) means in accordance with fact or reality
Key word - reality which means The world or the state of things as they actually exist.
Now think about it, if people lie then it becomes an idealistic or notional idea in which becomes no longer a fact also known as non-existence.

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Cliché quote: “Our limitations and success will be based, most often, on your own expectations for ourselves. What the mind dwells upon, the body acts upon.”

Zues quote: Expectations, Experience, and Emotions. The three things internally that will effect the external actions that will affect the internal state of mind.