My Cousins (all 11 females) and I always have deep conversations about our life. Decomposing situations for a better understanding, to understand each detail, and build the situation back together to extract details which we subconsciously missed, then piece together for a better solution.
One of my cousins called me yesterday (who shall remain nameless) to get a guy's opinion
and to talk about her situation overall. I can't really describe the details of a situation for that is the privacy of her own but I can give a close enough broad understanding.
Pussy, emotions, and the mind always interfere and meld the wants, needs, temptations, what needs to be done, what you want to do, understanding, the do's, the dont's, the rights, the wrongs, and most of all complicate the comprehension of the most simplest things!
Some basic results to separate the 3 (the decomposing) is
- Separation - this way you are not doing neither right nor wrong. your not doing what you want to do which can be a don't. Lastly, no settle attachment for what ever reason, the pussy, emotion or the mind!
- Truth - Just tell the truth in all aspects in all in whom it concerns, including your self. You will be also fixated with he said she said, but you still have to conjure your own decision of truth.
- Awareness - If the situation changes on the opposite end and not yours in a negative way, then fuck it and roll with it. Subconsciously, cause its not what you wont look at it like this but look at it as that person doing you a favor!
My cousin told me she values every thing I say cause I keep it real: I told her "you know why I keep it real? 'Cause I hate people who only side with me or think I'm right cause I'm their friend, the same sex, family, like me more, etc. Just keep it real and whether you take my opinion or not that's all up to you. At the end of the day you are still going to do exactly what you want anyway, whether good or bad, right or wrong. or the mixture of the two. No need to be bias, a waste of my breath and your time!" She said "Trueeee, and that's why i love you"
The reason why I call it BI - IS:
- The word "Bi" refers to having two; doubly, on both sides; in two ways or directions. For this reason, you have two sides to pick from and your own is not one of them. In choosing one, it will be a conscious decision, not that you have to make one, you can stay BI
- The word "Is" refers to Definite. Now in ending the word "BIAS", you are going to choose a side, its almost mandatory, but in being the outside in, you are able to be "BI", which side you "IS" going to shed opinion on will determine better judgment of oneself as well.
Cliche Quote: "Fortunately for serious minds, a bias recognized as a bias sterilized"
Zues Quote: We can not be defined being bi, but we can be defined by making a choice, but confuse our self and others when making choices.
2 comments:
I like this one!! People are always gonna be bias when it benefits them. Its great that you ve put things out and dummed it down for all to READ :)
it's interesting because most people want you to tell them the 'truth'. yet if the answer is not what they wanted they tend to either follow their own path or they get mad at you. I have a male friend who's going through relationship problems, she too is my friend. I'm as 'Bi-Is' as i can. I tell him both the positive and negative possibilities and interpretations to what he ask me. Of course he answer me back, so what are you trying to tell me. I basically tell him, if you know what you want, and you feel as if what you're doing is worth it, who cares what i think, either way, you're gonna follow your heart. I laugh because then i get his hopes up and turn right around and crush it.
There's two sides and outcomes to everything. No matter what the advice given, only the actual parties knows the true results. It's great to be bias because man should makes his own final decision, those who cannot move on based on their outlook of things on their own, are those who tend to blame others for their failures.
love it.
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