Catering to a Women

This word "cater" always get misconstrued by men when it comes to "Catering to women" or "catering to A Woman" I should say...
To cater means to provide with what is needed or required...

Where men go wrong is that we (yes I said we cause I was in that position in one point of time) think "Catering" to a women is about all the incentives in the relationship, the roses, massages, going out to eat, etc. Which it is, but there is a time and place for everything.
Now I will tell you the trick to really "Cater" to a women.


1) Investing time into one women:
Time is a precious thing in life we should try not to waste and use it as wisely as we can. Investing in one woman is so much more less work then 2. When your women is not with you don't use this time to spend with someone who is not going to do any good for you other then a good nut. Use this time to invest in your self. Use this time to plan for tomorrow, in your future, in your relationship, in your hustle, etc. Think about the 2 hours you could of spent that could of got you ahead in pretty much anything.

Another thing is to spend time with a women in different aspects. when you both come home to work, find a mutual relax thing to do to engulf you and her both. When you are both off I'm not saying spend the whole day with her, but include her in something. Meaning something you want to do and she iS invited with no question.

All in all: Why not perfect learning about one women then trying to be the "jack of all trades"?


2) Simplicity is sometimes the most complex thing to do:
just showing how much appreciation you have for one person with giving her space as well as spending time with her in their interest and hobbies. By doing this you show her you know her just a bit, whether you like the hobby or not, this will show the small things you will go out your way to do with her considering its a personal interests. Now say her interests/hobby is something that will not necessarily involve you directly, example reading a book, painting, etc. Then again do it with her.

Example: Her hobby is reading, you happen to hate reading. This is what u do in this situation. You take the time out to buy her a book, (if your smart please find out her favorite author / genre of books she like and make sure she DON'T have it). Then what you need to do is get something you will read if you don't read! Pick up a comic book, gamer magazine, etc. Then when you bring the book to her to read with her, she will 1) love for you it 2) when you whip out your book she will laugh, call you you stupi (in a good way) but 3) this shows what you are willing to do for her.
Now thinking about, its like a compromise! Cause you read what you want, your still in the room, and still spending time with her! (FYI: spending time with someone doesn't necessarily mean to be engaging in activities together, but its also about being in each others presence in an enjoyable atmosphere). That's a connection that is tricky but once you have it, you have it.

Example 2: same as above but say her hobby is painting, get all the tools for her, etc. And get yourself a coloring book!

All in all: Why not invest in someones interest to gain a lifetime of happiness?

3) Falling into place:
If everything is balanced, everything shall fall into place and "Catering" shall be not as hard or "Extra" as it should be if you wish to say. Think about it, if men make their women happy on the natural things they SUPPOSE (suppose = things men got themselves into and the women did not force them to get in the relationship) to do, then the incentives to "CATERING" should be more enjoyable.

Earlier I said Catering means to provide with what is needed or required... What a girl needs is not to be showered in roses, balloons, and gifts, these are all things that are tangible that will or cable of being lost or destroyed. What is required is to provide this humane need that we are mentally fixed to need that we can't acquire our self. With 1 and 2 in place and effective you are providing many other things I have failed to mention: security, comfort, assurance, insurance, trust, happiness, and maybe love.

Then from there the Incentives a female receives on all those girly holidays - Valentines day, anniversaries, B-days, mothers day, etc. Now guys, now don't go around saying that Zues said "men only had to get incentives on these day" - Women love surprises, so never stop the "just cause". I'm just saying that gifts don't fix everything and use that time to do something worth more last longing.

I can ramble on with more things... But let's just start here fellas, ladies, get them guys on point or get them to read this!

Ladies ill make a "Cater pt. 2" later...

Cliché quote: “No girl who is going to marry need bother to win a college degree; she just naturally becomes a ''Master of Arts'' and a ''Doctor of Philosophy'' after catering to an ordinary man for a few years.”

Zues quote: Jay-z had "Big Pimpin" and Beyoncé had "Cater to you" - they knew there was a place and time for everything.

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